(photo credit; Wendell Berry at his desk.)
April is National Poetry Month in the US. I confess that I struggle with poetry and don’t understand why poets make their decisions:
Why divide your sentences in half like that?
Why put in those random breaks?
Huh. THAT was a poem?
^^ These are all questions that run through my mind while reading poetry. Plus more.
And yet, I keep reading it. One reason is that I want to conquer my fear; another is that, quite often, the poems I read make me smile. There’s a sense of familiarity and camaraderie with the poet that feels like friendship. When you read several collections of one poet’s work, you feel like you have a relationship with that person. You might even find yourself wondering what this poet would think of a particular news story or situation. And that is fun!

In What Are People For?, Wendell Berry teaches us that “a good poem exists at the center of a complex reminding.” I love this idea of a “complex reminding,” whatever that may be. I think the visual of a complex reminding is poetry in itself – when I first read that line I was startled and taken aback. I repeated a complex reminding to myself for the rest of the day.
I don’t have any insight or anything else to add to that idea, but maybe it’s something you’ll be thinking about today too? It’s an idea worth turning over and over in your more quiet moments.
I found the poem I’d like to share with you today in Wendell Berry’s collection called The Peace of Wild Things. It’s called How to be a Poet — and it’s another that made me smile. I hope you enjoy it.
How to be a Poet
(to remind myself)
Make a place to sit down.
Sit down. Be quiet.
You must depend upon
affection, reading, knowledge,
skill – more of each
than you have – inspiration,
work, growing older, patience,
for patience joins time
to eternity. Any readers
who like your work,
doubt their judgment.
Breathe with unconditional breath
the unconditioned air.
Shun electric wire.
Communicate slowly. Live
a three-dimensioned life;
stay away from screens.
Stay away from anything
that obscures the place it is in.
There are no unsacred places;
there are only sacred places
and desecrated places.
Accept what comes from silence.
Make the best you can of it.
Of the little words that come
out of the silence, like prayers
prayed back to the one who prays,
make a poem that does not disturb
the silence from which it came.
Wendell Berry, The Peace of Wild Things
I will be thinking about this…
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I’ve been thinking about it all day too. A complex reminding. A COMPLEX reminding. A complex REMINDING. That’s what has been spinning around my head all day!!
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“Live a three-dimensional life” — that line really speaks to me!
The most recent lecture in the author speaker series I’m subscribed to was by Joy Harjo, and she noted several times in her talk that in her opinion, the poet doesn’t really control the meaning of a poem; it’s up to the reader to make of it what they will. I really like that approach, and it I think it makes poetry more approachable. I think if you like a poem and if it gives you a good feeling, that’s all that matters.
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I also love the line about living a three dimensional life. Our lives are full of material to reflect upon and write about. This poem is a complex reminding of that fact 😉
And thank you for that lesson from Joy Harjo – it’s just lovely. As a former high achiever, it’s hard for me to get past wanting to “master” poetry and understand all of its subtleties. What hubris!
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I never understood those breaks either… until I read poetry outloud. Then those breaks become magic!
Happy Poetry Month!
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Oh! Okay — I’m going to try this tomorrow with my next Limón poem! And Happy Poetry month to you too 🙂
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I also have a confession to make: Poetry isn’t my thing, either. I know that the lack isn’t in poetry. Rather, it’s in me, a prose woman. 😉 However, I do like some of the Irish poets—Seamus Heaney and John O’Donohue. Also, David Whyte:
“Put down the weight of your aloneness and ease into the
conversation. The kettle is singing
even as it pours you a drink, the cooking pots
have left their arrogant aloofness and
seen the good in you at last. All the birds
and creatures of the world are unutterably
themselves. Everything is waiting for you.”
Technically, Whyte is English, but his mother was Irish.
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This poem made me smile! “the cooking pots have left their arrogant aloofness and seen the good in you at last.” I love that! Okay – David Whyte is going on the list of poets to look for. thank you!
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You can also hear Whyte on the show On Being, available as a podcast online. He has a wonderful voice and does such a wonderful job of reading the poem.
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what a beautiful love letter to poetry! I didn’t come to enjoy, let alone seek out, poetry until Katie studied it in high school and shared some of her lessons with me. (wow, it’s been 20 years!) it was one of her best gifts!
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It sounds like a wonderful way to find meaning in poetry! ❤️
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Oh Katie
These words are going to sitting in my heart in the coming days. So much I need to learn and practice. Thank you
Communicate slowly. Live
a three-dimensioned life;
stay away from screens.
Stay away from anything
that obscures the place it is in.
There are no unsacred places;
there are only sacred places
and desecrated places
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I’m so glad that this poem struck you, Juliann. Wendell Berry gives such good advice!
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I have always been a poetry lover even when I don’t feel like I fully understand it. I think poetry is kind of like swimming in the poet’s words, and some will keep you afloat and some will float right on by you, and that’s okay! I love that you’re still reading it regularly. Thank you for sharing this poem with us, it’s beautiful.
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I LOVE this analogy, Laila. Thank you!
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Now I’m going to be thinking about complex reminding. What is one put a hyphen in as poetry is a complex re-minding? I’m not sure that is a real word but still I like the idea of re-minding a poem.
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Oh, what an interesting idea! I love playing with words like that 🙂
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